Finding Love in All the Right Places

Maybe you do not want to hear that in order to find the right person God has for you, all you simply need to do is to wait on him. There is a saying that has been coined from the solution-focused model of counseling. It states, "If it’s not working, try something else." In this same vein, I submit that if dating has left you emotionally bankrupt with a broken heart and feelings of discouragement, consider an alternative. Give up dating. Embrace a season of waiting on God and trust his timing concerning the right person he has for you. You see, finding love in all the right places is imperative if you want the right kind of love to find you. As you wait on God and trust his timing, you may find beautiful treasures in your season of waiting.

-- Shanda Y. Smith, PH.D., LMFT, NCC